Find Love Blog

I’m not sure if it was JLo that put thick Latin girls on the map, but she certainly made it more acceptable for girls to look the way they do and be proud of it. I mean, why wouldn’t they? I’ve seen so many beautiful Latin girls that I’m starting to wonder why I don’t just sign up to some Latin dating site and try to meet one of these fiery, hot-blooded Latinas.

I love the idea of a passionate romance with a beautiful, thick Latin girl. You know, a gal with some hips who it isn’t afraid to shake them. A girl that will make you stand up and pay attention. A woman who knows what she wants and is going to do whatever it takes to get it.

Some guys prefer women who are always at the gym. They have only a little weight, but are still obsessed with taking it off. Not me. I like a girl with some curves and especially when she knows that those curves are what make her the most beautiful woman in the room. Confidence can be as sexy as anything else and a girl who knows she’s sexy is an alluring creature, indeed.

I haven’t been on too many dates with girls who have the kind of attitude that I’m talking about, but it certainly would be a dream come true to hook up with a thick Latin girl with all the curves, all the attitude and all the passion that make women like this so sexy. It’s a fantasy that’s hard to live up to, but I’m sure there must be girls like this in my area.

I love the way women who are proud of the way they look carry themselves. They hold their heads high, they look you straight in the eye and they exude a kind of raw sexiness that is absolutely impossible to achieve if you don’t believe in yourself. I wish all women could see the beauty they posses the way these gals do. I guess I’ll just have to keep looking for my sexy, thick Latin girl, but it’s a search that will be worth it, I’m quite sure.

Source: Searching For A Thick Latin Girl

Bookmark it:

read comments (0)

One of my very best friends is a lesbian. She always has been and has never gone through that period of denial that so many others do. That means she’s never had to date people of the opposite sex to prove anything to herself or to others. She’s been single for a while now, she’s grown tired of the bar scene and she’s starting to wonder where the best gay babes are. I’ve recommended she start checking out some lesbian dating sites and I’m really hoping that it’s going to pay off for her.

There are very few people who are as sweet as my friend. She’s exactly the type of friend that you want to have when you’re going through a hard time. She’s a charming, engaging, attractive gal in her 30′s, but she’s starting to wonder what happened to all her lesbian dream girls. There’s only so much time you can spend in a bar, no matter who you are or how old you are. She never complains about it being a little more difficult for her to meet women outside of that kind of a setting, but I know that it is becoming more and more difficult for her. It’s hard to find anyone who is worthy of your expectations when you’re no longer willing to settle for second best .

A couple of months ago, my friend split up with her girlfriend. There were issues of infidelity that she could no longer deal with, so, as hard as it was, she said goodbye to her partner of several years. Never one to get too down in the dumps, she immediately began putting herself out there in her community, but often with disastrous results. We all know that love on the rebound is never a good idea and my friend tried to give a little too much of herself and ended up getting hurt, yet again.

That’s why I suggested she try to find the best gay babes on an online dating site. It’s so much easier to have an open dialog with someone when you have a really clear idea of who that person is and what they’re after. Granted, not everyone is honest on personals sites, but the vast majority of them are and it’s that fact that makes it so much better to try and find a compatible mate.

My friend said she’s going to check it out and see how it goes for her. I really wish her all the best because, of all the people I know, she’s the one who deserves to find happiness the most.

Source: Where Are The Best Gay Babes?

Bookmark it:

read comments (0)

To my mind, the easy dater / easy date concepts go hand in hand. I don’t really understand why people on dating personals make such a big deal about their “ideal dates.” I mean, shouldn’t the focus be on getting to know each other rather than making sure there are enough distractions so stave off awkwardness?

Don’t get me wrong, I understand the idea behind crafting a first impression and how important it can be to pick an inviting environment that reflects your tastes. I’m not saying that I don’t put any thought into things, but it does seem like it is excessive to plan an elaborate event when you’re meeting someone for the first time.

Now, I’ve spent a lot of time agonizing about what the perfect first date gifts are so that I could really sweep a woman off her feet. I also think you need to appreciate how special a person is and treat them accordingly. However, I really value simplicity.

The kind of people I appreciate are easy daters in the sense that they like easy dates that are simple and really focus on the interactions of the two people involved. The perfect date, for me, involves sitting in a quiet bar and talking over a couple of drinks, but I imagine this is what most people list next to “boring” when they imagine their perfect nights.

I used to I worry that I don’t always make the most spectacular first impression, but I’ve come to realize that anyone I’m going to be compatible with will probably have the same tastes as me in this respect. They’ll care about simple pleasures and value good conversation above almost everything else. Dancing is fun, clubs are exciting, food is important and movies give you something to talk about, but all that should really matter is who you are with and how you get along.

I still want those special, memorable, romantic moments, but those things happen when the spirit moves you and when the opportunity presents itself. To get along with someone, the most important things are to be able to enjoy each other without all the frills and to love sharing simple moments together.

Source: Easy Dater/ Easy Date: It Should Be That Simple

Bookmark it:

read comments (0)

Being a single parent is no easy feat these days. It’s even more difficult when you start to feel like you might want to go on some dates. For myself, most of my evenings are spent making sure that dinner is ready, dishes are done and homework is completed. Sure, there are single parent, online dating services, but it’s difficult to find the time to get involved with anyone. It’s not a complaint, it’s just a fact. I wouldn’t change my life for anything, but it would still be nice to have some time to go out on a date a little more often than I’m able to now.

I’m sure that there are single rich men out there who have absolutely no idea what I’m talking about. I’ve been a single parent for so long that I don’t remember what it was like before. Going out on weeknights is definitely a thing of the past and the rare times that I have a weekend to myself, I’m generally just catching up on cleaning that I wasn’t able to do during the week.

Don’t get me wrong, the kids help out as much as they can, but I don’t want to leave my good clothes to be washed by a 13 year-old who doesn’t care as much about how my clothes turn out as I do. Besides, what kind of kid wants to spend time cleaning anyway? I’m a big believer in letting kids be kids for as long as possible. That’s not to say that I’m letting them do whatever they want and not teaching them anything about responsibility. It’s just that I’m trying to let them have some fun before they reach the point in their lives, like I have, where they have to be more dedicated to responsibilities.

I’ve often thought of trying to date wealthy women who have enough money to take care of me and fix all my problems. I’m a realist, though, and I know that life just is the way it is and we all have to deal with it the best we can. Being a ‘kept man’ is just going to have its own set of problems.

For the time being, I’ll just stick to the little amount of single parent online dating that I’m able to do. Besides, before I know it, those kids will be out of the house and raising their own families and I want to spend as much time with them as I possibly can in the meantime.

Source: Single Parent Online Dating Difficulty

Bookmark it:

read comments (0)

Honesty is a big deal to me these days. For me, it is imperative, especially when I’m dating. It doesn’t matter if it’s when seeking adult singles online, or meeting some stranger from out of town, it’s so important to know what it is that you’re getting into. Even the most beautiful girls can put me off if they’re not completely honest with me from the very beginning.

A couple years ago I dated an incredibly gorgeous woman named Karen. I met her through an online dating service. We had been dating for a couple months, and had become kind of serious before I found out that she hadn’t been completely honest with me. It wasn’t that she was a serial killer or anything. It was just that, for whatever reason, she decided not to tell me that she had been divorced twice. Like I said, it’s not the worst thing in the world. I myself am divorced. When she told me, I had to ask myself: can this relationship be saved? I wasn’t too sure at first, this withheld information had made me somewhat uncomfortable. I decided to break it off with her because I couldn’t help feeling that she may have been hiding something else. She may not have been, but given how important honesty is to me, I just couldn’t let it go.

Knowledge is the key to understanding, or so they say. I know it takes a little while for people to open up to others and you never usually really get to know someone for a good long while. On the first few dates you never really get to know a person, you’re usually just meeting their ‘representative’. We’ve all had experiences that make us afraid of opening up, but it’s when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable that we’re able to open ourselves up to the most wonderful experiences.

I’m not perfect in any way, but I always try to be honest about who I am, what I’ve done and where I’m going in life when I’m dating someone new. That way we can both get a better sense of whether or not we want to pursue a relationship or just move on.

Source: The Most Beautiful Girls Have Secrets Too

Bookmark it:

read comments (0)