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Ok, so I have a dating blog and write about dating, but I can’t seem find a date myself. I know that a lot of people are looking for dating advice, and I’m one of them.

I’ve been trying to give dating advice to people on this blog that I write, and I hope it’s good advice. I enjoy writing about the subject and I can see why people that write novels enough writing about romance or what not.

Reality is much different than fiction, and while I feel I’m ok at writing about dating, it’s much different to actually find someone to date. I could talk about myself and think of excuses why I can’t find someone to date, but I don’t want to. I want to listen to what people have to say.

I’m sure I’m not the only one that writes about something they don’t fully understand. I also think that dating, relationships, love, ect is a complex subject.

I know that this post may seem pathetic because I have a blog about dating and I myself can’t find a date. Well, I guess I am pathetic. Anyway, I’m looking for some tips.

Source: I Need Dating Advice

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According to a study the best pick-up line is “hi” and a “smile”. This makes sense. It seems to work fine. The study was something I read from an edu site a long time ago, but I forget where. The simple fact, is that pick-up lines just don’t work. Of course, there many be an exception, but the odds are against you. You are far better off, just trying be a normal person and starting a conversation that is unique. If you hear a pick-up line from someone, you never know if they have told it to many other people. However, if you memorize a lot of pick-up lines, you can just keep saying them. If you say a lot of pick-up lines to a person, surely it will make them smile. Just have also say normal things too. You don’t want just keep saying pick-up lines to a person forever, that will make them want go away from you.

Saying pick-up lines is equal to saying a joke. If you are comedian and you know lots of jokes, it might work. If you know a lot of pick-up lines, it might work also. The study that “Hi” is best pick-up line, who knows what those college kids really know. Sure, it might be best from a percentage point of keeping conversation going, but really, did those students really test it, and how did they test this. Surely they did not go out themselves and do testing.

So my best advice for pick-up lines, is too not say them at all. Just be funny in your own way. Jokes are not really funny. Pick-up lines are not really funny. You are funny. Just be yourself and be funny, because you can be funny yourself, without the help of jokes and pick-up lines. You are naturally funny in your own way, by saying a joke or pick-up line that someone else has used, that’s not you. Be you. You are really funny person! Just prove it.

Anyway, for the sake of fun-ness, I’ll list a pick-up line that is funny to me. If you say it, it will make you both smile, but then you are stuck at sqare one. “Hi, my name is chance” Waits for response. “Do I have one?”

Source: Best Pick-Up Lines

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What was that saying before? Eyes are the heart of the soul? Maybe it’s true. Eye contact can be both good and bad. Let’s say, for example, you are out at a bar, and staring at someone you like, but she or he does not look at you at all. That’s bad. Now if you are talking with someone and they are looking at your eyes and you are also looking at their eyes, then that’s good. If you each are making eye contact with eachother, it doesn’t really matter what is said to eachother. You can just ramble on about nothing and know what you are saying and what you are thinking are completely seperate entities.

Now if you stop talking to eachother, then you should stop staring at eachother. However, you should try keep conversation going, just say random things and this will make things go much more smoothly. You don’t want others that are watching y’all, look at you, and see you having eye contact with eachother but not talking. You should continue talking, just keep talking, and talking, and you can continue to look at eachother without anyone thinking that it’s odd. Words will say one thing and eyes will say something else. You just need keep things casual and continue talking and keeping eye contact.

However, if you are having conversation, and there is no mutual eye contact, do not try to make it work. If it doesn’t work, then don’t worry about it. Maybe they are having bad day or just not interested in you. Maybe they aren’t comfortable.

I’m talking about the times that people do give you eye contact. When this happens, don’t be shy. Share eye contact and look at eachother. It’s ok. Just continue conversation and words will just come out naturally, and you’ll be fine. Don’t think that you should always introduce yourself at the start either. It’s ok to have long conversation without saying your names. It’s alright. Just talk and share eachother’s eye contact. Things will be alright. To start conversation, you can just say hi, but I think it’s possible you can be a bit more creative. Something like, Hi, I like your …. or something. That’s better.

Source: All About Eye Contact

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Bloggers are clearly the best lovers. Why do I think so? There is perfectly good explanation why this is true.

Communication is the key to any good relationship. Open-ness and Honesty and Freedom to speak what’s on your heart. Bloggers write a lot and just talk about whatever is on their mind. They have experience is talking and talking and know that everything they say may not make sense to everyone, but it makes sense to them, sometimes.

So what is the point of all this. If you don’t have a blog you may want to get one. It will help you become a better lover by expressing yourself to others and getting feedback. The more you write the more you listen, and in turn become a better lover. Whether or not you already have someone, it’s going to help you, no matter what.

I’ve done my research, now you do yours. You’ll find out what I meant and what I said is absolutely true. So if you are single you may consider finding a blogger. If you are not single, you may consider becoming a blogger. This will sure spark up things for you. I really think it’s true.

Source: Why Bloggers are the Best Lovers

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