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All About Eye Contact

What was that saying before? Eyes are the heart of the soul? Maybe it’s true. Eye contact can be both good and bad. Let’s say, for example, you are out at a bar, and staring at someone you like, but she or he does not look at you at all. That’s bad. Now if you are talking with someone and they are looking at your eyes and you are also looking at their eyes, then that’s good. If you each are making eye contact with eachother, it doesn’t really matter what is said to eachother. You can just ramble on about nothing and know what you are saying and what you are thinking are completely seperate entities.

Now if you stop talking to eachother, then you should stop staring at eachother. However, you should try keep conversation going, just say random things and this will make things go much more smoothly. You don’t want others that are watching y’all, look at you, and see you having eye contact with eachother but not talking. You should continue talking, just keep talking, and talking, and you can continue to look at eachother without anyone thinking that it’s odd. Words will say one thing and eyes will say something else. You just need keep things casual and continue talking and keeping eye contact.

However, if you are having conversation, and there is no mutual eye contact, do not try to make it work. If it doesn’t work, then don’t worry about it. Maybe they are having bad day or just not interested in you. Maybe they aren’t comfortable.

I’m talking about the times that people do give you eye contact. When this happens, don’t be shy. Share eye contact and look at eachother. It’s ok. Just continue conversation and words will just come out naturally, and you’ll be fine. Don’t think that you should always introduce yourself at the start either. It’s ok to have long conversation without saying your names. It’s alright. Just talk and share eachother’s eye contact. Things will be alright. To start conversation, you can just say hi, but I think it’s possible you can be a bit more creative. Something like, Hi, I like your …. or something. That’s better.

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